|re you trying to locate it from within IE and do you have the following showing:|
File - Edit - View - Favorites - Tools - Help?
If these are missing you can get them temporarily by holding down the Alt key. To get them permanently right click a blank area in the toolbars then put a check mark agains Menu Bar from the list.
As said already, you can also get to Internet Options via the Control Panel.
That is all a big guess because you have not clearly explained the problem - you know what it is but we don't. You don't say whether Tools is showing in IE or where you are trying to find it.
Please do not post then vanish - let us know the outcome