A loss on CN.

Derek November 24, 2015 at 16:55:15

Really sad indeed and so young. I well remember Kuwese's very sound posts. He must have been very young when he started on here. Even worse to hear about your immediate sad news at the same time. My condolences won't help much but that's about all I can offer. message edited by Derek

trvlr November 24, 2015 at 16:58:42

That is sad that one so young should pass on out... Condolences to hIs family, who likely feel the loss greatly. Condolences too to you "grasshopper" over the loss of your wife... Hang in there... Sincerely, trvlr

grasshopper November 24, 2015 at 17:00:39

Derek, Not much you can say, but thank you just the same.

grasshopper November 24, 2015 at 17:02:07

trvir, Thank you. It is a shame. Gone too soon.

Justin Weber November 24, 2015 at 17:09:32

Hi, That is a great loss to the Computing.Net community and the world-wide community as a whole. He really was a great person! He will be sorely missed. Thank you so much for letting us know about this. Justin

grasshopper November 24, 2015 at 17:16:38

Hi Justin, He truly was a great person and a good friend. I don't know how he died yet, his sister emailed me to tell me of his passing. I will surely miss him.

ijack November 25, 2015 at 00:57:06

Sad news. Condolences to Kuwese's family and to yourself.

AlwaysWillingToLearn November 25, 2015 at 02:43:49

My condolences to Kuwese's family and to yours grasshopper! very sad news, may they rest in peace..

XpUser November 25, 2015 at 04:35:15

My deepest sympathies go out to yours and Kuwese family. I have PM Justin to post link to Kuwese past posts so that his spirit will continue to live among us. i_Xp/Vista/W7/W10 User

grasshopper November 25, 2015 at 05:21:18

Thank You everyone for your condolences. Much appreciated. I'll post an update if I hear from Kuwese's sister. Happy Thanksgiving to you all.

Justin Weber November 25, 2015 at 05:22:56

Hi all, Here is the link requested to Kuwese's profile: http://www.computing.net/userinfo/1... Thanks so much! Justin

XpUser November 25, 2015 at 05:49:15

Justin - TY and you are very welcome. grasshopper - Please let Kuwese sister know that the link Justin provided puts all of Kuwese 3949 posts in perpetual so that his spirit lives among every one of us, especially you and his sister. Happy Thanksgiving, i_Xp/Vista/W7/W10 User

btk1w1 November 25, 2015 at 07:02:28

Grasshopper, My condolences go out to you. Very sad news.

grasshopper November 25, 2015 at 11:02:25

btk1w1, Thank You. Very kind of you.

riider November 25, 2015 at 14:23:21

So sad to die so young. grasshopper, do you know the circumstances? Kuwese & I used to exchange PMs quite often, talking about all sorts of things - computing (of course), but also movies, music, gaming, cars, politics, live in the US vs life in Africa, etc, etc. We exchanged pics & links about things happening in our respective parts of the world. But our conversations ended abruptly. I know he had his heart broken by a young girl. I hope that had nothing to do with his passing. For anyone who didn't have the pleasure of knowing him, here's his pic: http://i1139.photobucket.com/albums...

grasshopper November 25, 2015 at 14:38:04

Hi riider. Sounds like we both had a similar relationship with him. He was very unlucky with the women. I used to try to give him advice on the ladies, and he became like a son to me. He also made numerous attempts at having a business. He was a graphics designer ( mostly logos for business) but they all failed too. He was very depressed at times and told me he wouldn't get out of bed and didn't wash. All I know for now is his sister told me he passed away on July 25th. I sent her a return email, but got no response yet. I kind of suspect suicide, but I can't say for sure. He spoke very highly of you. I'll pm you his sisters info. I don't have an android phone, so I can't use WASUP. He will be missed.

T-R-A November 25, 2015 at 16:27:48

Indeed, a great loss---especially for someone so young. And condolences to you as well, grasshopper. As with everyone here, I'm sure we'd all lend an ear to listen or shoulder to lean on should you need one. T-R-A "Channeling the spirit of jboy..."

Derek November 25, 2015 at 16:33:59

Re #17 Yeah, I'm sure anyone here would be happy to chat one to one over PMs if it would help. message edited by Derek

grasshopper November 25, 2015 at 16:35:20

T-R-A / Derek Thank You. It's nice to know I have a lot of friends at a time like this. This is the worst thing I've ever gone through. I have so many mixed emotions, and it's nice to know you guys understand. I lost my only true love and best friend of 24 years. Then i find out about Kuwese. Life, sometimes, doesn't feel fair. Thanx again. message edited by grasshopper

OtheHill November 25, 2015 at 19:17:30

grasshopper, so very sorry for your loss. I am also sorry to hear about kuwese. He was a valued member here. I didn't realize he was so young.

grasshopper November 26, 2015 at 05:22:06

OtheHill, Thank you. I was shocked to find out how young he was too. He sent me a PM a few years ago and we became friends from there. He was very knowledgable about computers. I was impressed. My wife and I were together for 24 years, but knew each other for almost 50. On this Thanksgiving, I'm giving thanks for having both of them in my life. Hope you have a nice Thanksgiving too.

Ewen November 26, 2015 at 17:22:55

My condolences to you grasshopper and especially to the family of Kuwese. this is certainly a great loss to both families. Thank you too Justin and riider for the links

grasshopper November 27, 2015 at 05:04:54

I just got this email from Sasha's sister this morning. He was in a bad accident (auto? ) and died of his injuries. She said he died with a smile on his face. I can only hope he found the peace he sought. RIP Sasha Selengia. From his sister Ok.sasha got accident on april 18th this year he was in bad condition he get fructure in his skull and he broke all the rips on his chest.he was a little bit fine when he was in a hosptal bt smtms he loose memory and he was in oxygen in all ths time when he was in hosptal.later he got comma until july 25th when he died.ur frd was in a big pain brad i cant tell.i will always love him.may his soul rest in peace amen. Ur frd was in a beautiful smile when he died.he didnt change at all. message edited by grasshopper

riider November 27, 2015 at 05:44:21

I feel somewhat better that his death was an accident rather than suicide. And I would like to echo what the others have said - my deepest condolences over the loss of your wife.

grasshopper November 27, 2015 at 06:03:46

Thank you rider. Much appreciated. I feel better too that it wasn't a suicide. I'm waiting to hear from his sister on what type of accident it was. I remember him telling me the hospitals over there were terrible. He may have survived had it happened here. We'll never know. Thank You for the condolences for my wife. I miss her terribly.

grasshopper November 27, 2015 at 09:22:59

Sasha's sister Larisa said he was killed from injuries sustained from a car accident.