stop and catch hackers with evidence for court?

July 16, 2012 at 22:11:32
Specs: Windows 7
I am getting a divorce and my husband knows how to hack my system and has in the past put a keylogger on my system just by knowing my ip address. He is getting every single keystroke. I want to know how to stop it and how to protect my system and how I can catch him for evidence in court?

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#1
July 16, 2012 at 23:30:47
Do you want to stop him or catch him? In either case get an expert to check your PC and advise you.

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#2
July 20, 2012 at 17:22:33
I agree with #1. Forum advice is inappropriate for legal action. You have to have hands-on support from a named expert with appropropriate documented computer security qualifications.

I do not mean your local repair shop, as they often only claim they are professionals because they happen to make a living out of repairing computers.

Always pop back and let us know the outcome - thanks


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#3
July 21, 2012 at 10:07:38
Can I purchase or download a program that will track everything coming into my system like a keylogger?

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#4
July 21, 2012 at 10:08:48
I would also like to set my system up so that anyone who tries to hack my system gets a worm back that crashes their system. How do I do that?

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#5
July 21, 2012 at 10:45:21
Re #3
Sorry, I don't know of one personally but keep watching in case someone else can help. Whether such a thing would be admissible evidence is quite a different matter.

Re #4
We can't help on here because that is hacking and against forum rules. In any event I wouldn't recommend you try otherwise it might be you in the dock.

Always pop back and let us know the outcome - thanks


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#6
July 23, 2012 at 23:44:06
TigerDove,

There's one of two scenarios here. First is that your boyfriend isn't really all that savvy with computers and just knows about a few things (like remote desktop access and what a keylogger is) and is using that little bit of knowledge to mess you up. The second scenario is that he actually knows what he's doing down to a software level (understands code, ect). If the second is true than anything we tell you to do he'll counteract and all you can really do is hope he stops being a jerk... If the first is true than I'm willing to help you HOWEVER I won't and can't help you do anything that is malicious towards him. I'm offering preventive measures and security advice, not a lesson in "hacking" ... Let me know.


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#7
July 27, 2012 at 09:06:49
Thank you all for the advice. To The_SPQ, my husband is very intelligent and knows code. He is self taught. I want to stop anyone from getting into my system and hacking it and would like to track all activity. I need to be able to coorespond with my attorneys without his knowledge. I have a right to privacy and I can not do that with him hacking my system and getting every siingle keystroke and all information. For instance, I need to send my new address and other pertinent information through email, he gets it all unless I call or fax it. He needs to be stopped. If at all possible I would like to be able to print this information out to prove that he is hacking my system to show to the judge. Whether the judge allows it or not is up to them. I want to have the information to at least present it and put him on notice that I know and do have it. Hopefully that alone will stop him. The judge can at least warn im if he is doing it that he can get into trouble. He is only here because I helped him and his parents get their green card. As soon as they got everything they abused me physically, verbally and emotinally. I have had to file charges against them for kidnapping because they wouldn't let me out of the house or let me use the phone to call for help. Please help me so I can at least feel safe to use my computer.

thank you TigerDove


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#8
July 27, 2012 at 09:17:42
I think you do need professional help 'in situ', there isn't a lot that can be done with easily accessible software and I'm also assuming that he is aware you are posting on this forum anyway. If you do want to get evidence against him then you have got to use someone who is able/prepared to put their name to it.

Best suggestion is to ask a friend if you can use their computer, away from your house, set up a new GMail/Hotmail address and then use that to do your communicating - I mention GMail/Hotmail because you can at least then access your email from any computer, even from a smartphone - just keep it hidden.

"I've always been mad, I know I've been mad, like the most of us..." Pink Floyd


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#9
July 27, 2012 at 09:43:56
johnr,

I appreciate the suggestion; however, I will absolutely not be run off from my own home to "hide" from him. I have a right to peace and to be able to have my life without interferance from his immaturity. If he is not stopped he will continue to harrass me. The girlfriend he cheated on me with is still sending me junk mail and signing me up for all kinds of porno. I had to get the attorney involved with her and was sent a letter that she could be sued for this and my attorney quoted case law to use to prove to her that she can be put in jail for it. He is aware of this as well but they don't care. They need to be stopped !!!!!


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#10
July 27, 2012 at 13:10:59
IF you have already taken official action, my advice is to let them bury themselfs vs trying to block it, the more they send you, and commit electronic fraud the better. If you do take steps to block them / remove the software that was installed, ensure that you maintain the evidence, because in this type of situation that is what matters.

:: mike


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#11
July 27, 2012 at 19:41:53
Dear JOhn,

This man and his family have gotten away with using me for help too aquire their green cards and then left me like I was trash. I will not simply walk away from this ever. I will haunt them until the end of time to make sure they pay for what they have done. As for the idiot whore he messed around with she is on the s--- list as well


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#12
July 28, 2012 at 04:47:52
I think you need to sit down with your lawyer and find out for definite what sort of evidence you need to be able to accuse him/them of a crime. I can fully appreciate and agree that you want to get back at him/them but you need to make sure that you have the law on your side.

I would still consider setting up a second route of communication, even if it's just a Hotmail account on a smartphone it means that you can string him along thinking he knows all of what's happening in the hope that he digs himself deeper into it.

And remember the old saying, 'Revenge is a dish best served cold'.

"I've always been mad, I know I've been mad, like the most of us..." Pink Floyd


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#13
August 17, 2012 at 22:02:06
Hello John,

I have an iphone, he keeps hacking my account and one of his family in particular is trying to make things difficult for me; his aunt. Im going to just take it to an attorney and file for marriage fraud divorce and send there asses bback to Nepal. Im already sick of the whole mess. I have never been so betrayed in my life. I have never been so hurt. I wish I could find someone who wouldn't take advantage of my good nheart and just love me for who I am and would protect me and keep me safe. Is that so hard to do? Is that really too much to ask of a man these days? Thanks for all the advice from all the contributors to my request. I really appreciate your help. keep in touch with any other ideas you may have please. Good luck to you all as well if love hasn't bitten you I hope you find a good fish not a shark.

tigerdove


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#14
August 23, 2012 at 02:28:04
. He hacked me here !!!!! I wanted help to stop him from hacking me; how do I stop him?

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#15
August 23, 2012 at 06:00:31
I doubt if anyone here can give you the help you need because from afar we have no way to tell how he is doing it. You need "hands-on" help - someone has to look at the computer and determine his methods.

If you are using a wireless router, change your pass key and your router password.

Always pop back and let us know the outcome - thanks


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#16
August 27, 2012 at 22:07:54
I have changed everything several times and have begun the enormous process of deleting everthing online and just dropping off the grid. He has used conversations online I have had to try to stop him in court by hacking me and putting a keylogger on my computer to spy on me. He gets every keystorke. Please check your system and let me know if you can see if anyone has tampered wtih your site. If so I would like to know about it so I can take this to the police. This is rediculous. I am the victim and the law is allowing him to continue to victimize me.

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#17
August 28, 2012 at 00:32:20
For a start, get a new username, set it up in an internet cafe or somewhere else anonymous - just doing a quick Google on yours shows you have a presence on many sites and that makes it very easy for anyone to find out what you are up to, what you look like etc.
Then get another computer (doesn't have to be a new one), which must be kept from anyone else, and use this solely for your new persona. Get it set up by someone who knows how to install security passwords and programs, don't use passwords you already use - I'll bet you have the same favourite password for all of the forums you go on.

"I've always been mad, I know I've been mad, like the most of us..." Pink Floyd


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