|"My husband asks me all the time why I send hin emails about bras and undies"|
Hmmmm....could he be surfing those areas? Sorry, Usually the accuser is to blame and tries to cover it up.
merelyme, You can try malwarebytes, update it and remove all it finds. See if that gets you started.
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