|The wifi nic card does not connect before authentication.|
That's normal. What is the point of authentication if the connection is made before authentication.
I would like to have the wifi driver load befor i clik ok to authenticat.
It does. The wi-fi driver loads with the operating system. By the time you get to the position of being able to do anything, all the drivers are loaded and ready to go. Once the operating system is up and running the only way to load a new driver is to re-boot.
Perhaps if you explain exactly what your problem is and there may be a solution.