|autoassigned should be enabled by default which is what generates the 169 ip address.|
To to the tcp/ip v4 properties [where you assigned the static ip] and on the "alternative configuration" tab make sure "automatic private ip address" is selected.
You may want to consider using a product like mhotspot or conectify to make a true hotspot out of your wireless laptop.
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