|set one computer as the "server"|
setup a share only your account has access to on this server
store everything here.
set it so you and administrator [you always want a backup access account] have access to it
concerning the kids
make limited user accounts on every pc except the server for each one of them.
set their password to what you want, and never to expire.
now they can get on anytime they want without your intervention
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