|I would contact the games hosts, they would have an answer to that question.|
44kbytes/sec is slow, very slow, probably far to slow to even consider playing an on-line game. You are probably getting timed out as you are left behind by the other players.
As a rough guide 44kbytes/sec is equivalent to 440 kbits/sec. Broadband speeds these days are measure in mega bits, not kilo bits.