|Just because you put alot of games on it doesn't make it a 'gaming' laptop. |
The GT 230m is a lower-mid range card. It should still be able to play most games on low-medium settings.
Are your drivers up to date? Did it use to be faster, but only recently got slower? If so, what has changed (any new programs, hardware, windows updates, etc.?).
5 minutes to load up for a laptop isn't uncommon. If your drive is a 5400 RPM hard drive and you have alot of programs to start up, especially.
Again, has it always been this slow? If so, then it sounds like your computer is just not as fast as you would like, not that there is something wrong with it. You could upgrade to a SSD to get faster load up times for your machine and programs, but with a laptop thats about it. You could do a fresh install of Windows and you will probably notice faster load up times as well.