|Try a DVD-R, instead of DVD-RW. As stated, some players don't like -RW's.|
If (on the laptop) you browse the DVD, do you see a video file, or two folders (Audio_TS and Video_TS)? If you don't have the folders, it's not in DVD format and will need conversion before burning to DVD-R.
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