I got this little registry entry that adds a take ownership option to your right-click menu so you do not have to fumble through window after window of permissions and ownership. I don't know why the standard method for taking ownership didn't work and this did, but I am just so happy that I don't really care. here's the key
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Windows Registry Editor Version 5.00
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\*\shell\runas]
@="Take Ownership"
"NoWorkingDirectory"=""
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\*\shell\runas\command]
@="cmd.exe /c takeown /f \"%1\" && icacls \"%1\" /grant administrators:F"
"IsolatedCommand"="cmd.exe /c takeown /f \"%1\" && icacls \"%1\" /grant
administrators:F"
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Directory\shell\runas]
@="Take Ownership"
"NoWorkingDirectory"=""
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Directory\shell\runas\command]
@="cmd.exe /c takeown /f \"%1\" /r /d y && icacls \"%1\" /grant
administrators:F /t"
"IsolatedCommand"="cmd.exe /c takeown /f \"%1\" /r /d y && icacls \"%1\"
/grant administrators:F /t"
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To use it just copy everything inside the ============ and paste it to a new notepad document and save it as 'all files' and name it what you want with .reg at the end. Voila, you can now right click on a file and take ownership. Good luck.