Irq problems should be a thing of the past in Win2000 or so Microsoft would have us believe!!
IRQ sharing is acceptable in some situations. It is not unusual to find that your Bios has allocated the same IRQ for your NIC and , say, the sound card. This does not mean that there will be problems. If the IRQ for any peripheral is active and a request is beinjg made to the CPU, simultaneously, problems can occur. Most times it will be okay. Requests are instantaneous, in human timescales. But, it is true that conflicts can occur but, are not reported in diagnostics. This is because Windows is stupid and, to some extent relies on the Bios Plug N Play system to sort it all out.
Disable the Plug N Play in the CMOS and take control. Use any driver diags disk that you may have for your NIC or other peripherals. You can dictate what IRQ is applied to which card. However, this MUST be done in REAL DOS, not in a DOS window within Windows. Also, it is best practice to do a 'clean boot, to Boot disk or MS-DOS 6.22 Disk 1. Then you have a free run without any TSR problems.
Be firm, take control and remember to write down what IRQ and I/O parameters you have set in DOS so that you can shove them down Window's throat on reboot.
Happy trails