I agree with Bryan...I'm not gonna jump for the ctrl key when I open a website. I'm going to leave.
Steve,
I think you're fine. I don't use aol but, you were thoughtful enough to reduce the pic on your home page from 640x480 to 200x150. The thumbnails on your other pages are clear and small enough for dial-up users to run through. For those with high speed connections, everything loads just fine at full size.
Best I can suggest at this point is for you to find a machine using aol as a browser to see for yourself how everything looks.
Frankly, for a commercial site, I try to keep image sizes down as much as possible for dial-up users. However, on my personal site, I pretty much put everything up I feel like as long as it'll show up on a monitor set to 800x600 resolution. Occasionally, I don't even worry about that.
Should be an aol user by to give an opinion.
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