|Your wife not having the right wifi passphrase would not result in a log for a smurf attack. Either you are misinterpreting the router log or the router is falsely logging.|
smurf attack is icmp bombardment. Wifi authenication doesn't use icmp.
You don't block smurf attacks with mac addresses. Most routers do this automatically based on the icmp flood detection.
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