|Are you asking for help in spying or prying into the private matters of your "significant other"?|
If so then here's a prediction for you. 1. regardless of the outcome of your inquiries your relationship with this significant other is doomed.
2. If you pursue this line then you will likely find yourself in serious legal trouble.
3. As a minimum you will find yourself banned from this forum.
If I have mis-interpreted your question I apologize
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