|I mention chinese web sites as a warning so you won't get attacked. 90% of our router logs containing attempted attacks are from chinese ips.|
I further pointed out that there would be no need for antiarp if you followed basic standard operating procedures.
You are confused in that the attack antiarp tells you is happening is local. It is not. It's antiarps misinterpetation as well as your own.
If you took a small amount of time to learn how to configure a software firewall you would find it would have no effect on your TV or games yet would block attacks. Hence my suggestion to do so.
But it appears you have difficulty connecting the dots with your referances to no helpful suggestions, which I gave, as well as your comments about chinese food, which I have been enjoying/cooking longer than you most likely have been alive.
Might want to consider zonealarm for your software firewall.