|"will push it 200-600 time to get it to eject"|
That will just get you a sore finger.
Is this in a laptop or desktop system? Will the drawer open when the system is booted up into BIOS Setup? This will tell you whether you have a software or hardware problem. Have you tried a Soft eject? ( Not sure how Vista works but in XP simply rightclick on CD Drive in My Computer and click Eject )
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