|Nana, use the edit feature to remove your telephone number from your original post (718- is Queens, Brooklyn, Bronx in NYC).|
Post the exact make and model number of the laptop to be sure, but it does sound like you may need a different machine to run the game on. It is best to keep your laptop for work and portability and get or build a gaming level desktop machine. Even though this may be fairly expensive, it will be much less than the near equivalent in a laptop.
You have to be a little bit crazy to keep you from going insane.