Just download Sisoft Sandra, go to the benchmarks and look for yourself. I need to post those benchmarks I took, but with work and college, I just havent found the time, I'll try to tonight.
The faster the RAM, the more bandwidth, the faster it will be. The loss people are talking about(being out of sync myth) comes from the fact that RAM access is slowed a bit when going to faster RAM because one has to input a slower access time for the ram (RAM access timing/settings) because the RAM can not respond fast enough at higher clock frequencies(about as non-tech as I can put it). So one trades access time (a nano second or so) for hundreds of MB's per sec. more bandwidth.
In any case, I understand where he is coming from, there are tons of websites backing the in-sync myth(pun intended), but it is a fallacy and a lot of sites will also tell one this. Confusing. But back to facts, you will score higher FPS scores in any game with a higher bandwidth RAM. Just look at GPU clock VS it's RAM speed, you'll find it is sometimes triple the GPU clock speed.
CPU's, GPU's can process in "billions" of instructions per second and some in trillions(and more). If one imagines an instruction as 8 bits([1 byte]as an example only, some instructions take hundreds of bits/bytes to complete) One can picture the bandwidth available inside a CPU. So why would one want to limit bandwidth even more in and out of ones CPU? Video cards have bandwidth in RAM speeds of almost 100gb's a sec these days, and still if one overclocks the RAM speed even more, the GPU can still take advantage of it and gain extra bandwidth and one sees an increase in FPS performance in games/video apps.
Besides all that blah which probably is hard to follow by now. The CPU is not the only thing that address RAM, the HD's, CD-ROM's, DVD-ROM's can cache in it, the Video card uses RAM when it runs out of video RAM, If one uses a shared memory arch. Then it only uses system RAM. the chipset, PCI cards, etc, etc, etc.
So why would one EVER want to limit RAM speed down to the CPU's bus speed. Also Intel cpu's are quad pumped! This is why they claim 1333mhz bus speeds on their latest and greatest. Even more data that is going to require even more bandwidth!
Enough blabbing now. I'll get those benchmarks posted sooner or later, just download sis soft sanrda and browse the memory benchmarks for your self.